Honestly, Friends.

When You Have to Quit Your Stressful Corporate America Job

Li quit her job during the hiatus between Season 1 & 2. This has been something that was planned for well over a year, but that did not make it any easier to quit a sure livelihood. This episode talks about the toxic practices in the work environment that made it a place that Li could no longer continue to stay at and maintain her mental health. Although the large paychecks were nice, we talk about how they cannot come at the expense of everything else!
Also, Li started a YouTube channel aimed at documenting the preparation of entrepreneurship and how that process will unfold in the present and future. Please stop by and subscribe to follow her journey. https://youtube.com/@QuitThatDayJob

3 is a Crowd Ma’am! Why Are Side Chicks So Bold?!

Unfortunately, women have been put in a situation where they have had to compete for the affection of one man since the beginning of time. What is perplexing though, is doubling down and staking claim at one that you knew all along was committed to someone one else?! The sense is completely gone. In this episode, Dai & Li, as usual, opine on what seems to be the flagrant foolishness!

Nepotism Babies & Is Leaving Your Kids an Inheritance Going To Ruin Them?

Both of us aspire to be rich black women, but Li is known for stating that she does not think she will be leaving her kids all of her wealth as an inheritance. In fact, she wants to leave them only a small portion of her wealth and give the rest to charities. Her reasoning leaves Dai bamboozled every time as Dai thinks the kids should get everything...Tap in for the debate!!

Making Time For Friendships When Life Is Constantly Changing

Although we wish our friendships could stay in a place that resolves around childhood happenings and reveries, things change throughout the decades. People move away, get job promotions, get married, get divorced, have children, and the list goes on... It does not mean our friendships have to stop, but it does mean that the nurturing of those friendships has to be prioritized.

Eboni K. Williams Said What She Said!

Ms. Williams set the innanets on fire this past week and by now sooooo many opinions are out there. Dai and Li are no different and talk it out in this episode! We think we agree with Eb, but there are still some nuances. Regardless, both women are Black queens, and we love to muse on each person's perspective.

A Friend Gently Calling You Out Should Not Be the End of Your Friendship!

Ever see a friendship end because one person dared to speak their honest opinion about something? Dai & Li feel like it happens so much in female friendships and that a differing in opinion is made out to be a mountain when it is really a molehill. Can us ladies find a way to stop this dynamic or are we doomed to keep it going? 

Is Your Territorial Friend Blocking Your Blessings?

Ever feel in your gut that your friend is gatekeeping when you would think they are open to bigging you up?! Instances where you hope that they would mention your name in a room but there is a chance that they will not... The girls talk about the weirdness that sometimes shows up in a friendship and some ways to get through it. 

Are Millenials Afraid to Grow Up?

Who said it was a good idea to remake House Party, Coming To America, or the Fresh Prince of Bel Air?! We wish this trend would end because the remakes rarely live up to the originals. Dai and Li unpack why we think this is happening, what it says about us millennials, and if we see hope for a more creative future!

Social Media Makes Me Feel Bad About Myself

Social media is a powerful tool that can help to keep people connected, start careers and build brands but it can also distort reality. Dai and Li discuss the ways in which social media can often leave one feeling as if you're not "doing enough" and they provide helpful ways to disconnect when you are feeling internet fatigue.

We Need New Friendship Rules...

It is time to call a meeting about the rules friends impose on each other that we have realized are borderline ridiculous! Who made these rules and why do we just follow them no questions asked? Dai and Li are calling some friendship toxicity out tuhday! We have no problem with rules, they should just serve both people in the friendship and not only one...