Honestly, Friends.

Manifesting, Delusion, & more!!

We know! It sounds counterintuitive, but could it be true? Are there situations where honesty hurts more than it helps... We get into it this episode!

Whether we like it or not, the sun goes down a lot earlier this time of year! We talk about how to cope with seasonal depression.

This we the ladies take some time to opine about how we feel about going to The Cheesecake Factory on a first date. As usual, we are split, but it ends up being all good! Is it about having standards, having humility, or a little bit of both?

Friends! This epi is about how women can just not win. If we leave the relationship, we get blamed. If we stay, we are stupid! We digest how to free ourselves mentally and emotionally from giving the outside world credence to our personal life. Join us!

Is it just us or does it feel like a lot of celebrities are spilling their life and relationship drama a lot more right now? From the Wade's, to the Smith's and even our girl Britney Jean Spears. We are receiving information overload! Some of it's juicy and some of it's just plain ol' cringey but right now we kinda just want them to... take us out the group chat. 

Why does it seem like Black women are the only women that are ever given advice to take what they can get. It is apparent that all other women are urged to get married, have high standards, and live softly! Dai and Li talk a little bit today about how mediocre advice is exhausting black women, and that we want people to know, kin or not, we will not allow that to be pushed on us anymore. Instead of pushing mediocrity on us, champion excellence to those around us! Thanks in advance.

On this week's episode we piggy back off of the last episode where we talked about venting about friends. This week we discuss why that conversation came about it in the first place and can you believe, it all started because a random woman on the internet decided to put a friend group on blast because they were venting about a friend? What are your thoughts on Social Media Vigilantes?

Is it okay to vent to your friends about other friends? This week we get really candid with each other and let it be known that we both vent about each other. We both feel it's healthy to do so, but it does feel a little weird to know that we do this. Is it a betrayal to vent to someone else? Should you only speak to the friend you have an issue with? That's the question. 

It grinds our gears when the question is asked, "What do you bring to the table?" It comes off as condescending and disrespectful. Someone who is actually interested in you will get to know you and figure out if you are actually compatible with their lifestyle. Your girls at Honestly Friends have our thoughts about this raggedy table.