Honestly, Friends.

Homogenous Friends: When Friends Either Stay the Same or Outgrow Each Other

Do birds of a feather always flock together? And do we always want it to be that way? What if you want to expand your horizons and your friends do not or are unable? Per usual, we have thoughts!!

Dating Non-Negotiables

We knew that we wanted to talk about this topic, but it took us a minute to post it as it requires you to really sit down with yourself and investigate what you want out of life. It was hard for our podcast so that means its even harder to put into words in real life! We hope that our thoughts get the ball rolling for ya'll when the time comes to state your dating non-negotiables.

Men Settle Too! Do Not Let Him Do That with You!

If you pay attention, you will see that a good amount of men be out here settling too! We are all taught not to settle in life, but usually, as women, we can think of it in terms of a women's perspective. Today's episode takes some time to highlight some signs to look for when trying to determine if a guy that you are dealing with is truly wanting to be with you or if he is settling for you. And if he is settling, run!

Friend: It’s Cool When You Do It, but When I do it...It’s A Problem?

How sway? There are friends that you will come across that are only upset when someone ruffles their feathers, but they have no problems being the offender. Does that work for ya'll? Dai & Li talk about how there is often one friend in the friend group that is allowed to get away with bad behavior more than everyone else.

When Friends Ghost You...

Have you ever been seemingly good with a friend and all of a sudden, they fell of the face of the earth? No communication at all is there between the two of you anymore, but you still see them living their best lives. You are just not a part of it anymore. Damn, ghosted! It is painful and we wanted to talk about why we think it happens in an in-depth manner! Tune in for our take on it!

The Montgomery Brawl Brought Us Together but Tory Lanez is Keeping Us Apart

It has been a week for black folks to say the least! The ancestors helped us stand up for one of our own on August 5th and we talk about what this means for us on both a micro and macro level. This week also brought us news about Tory Lanez's sentencing. Hopefully, now that the case is done done, we can let Meg move on in peace!
 
Please check out the following link to the upcoming documentary screening, "The Creative Healing Series: Volume 1: Best Friends Not Forever" that is premiering on 08/19/2023.
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/creative-healing-series-best-friends-not-forever-screening-discussion-registration-680962837177?aff=oddtdtcreator

How to be There for Your Friend When They are not Their Best Self!

Friends! We are back digging deep about how friendships can be a vessel for mere survival! Not every day is a good day, and our girlfriends often have more access to us than any other person in our lives. This is exactly why friendships can serve as a lifeline until we can get the help that we need! 
 
Please check out the following link to the upcoming documentary screening, "The Creative Healing Series: Volume 1: Best Friends Not Forever" that is premiering on 08/19/2023.
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/creative-healing-series-best-friends-not-forever-screening-discussion-registration-680962837177?aff=oddtdtcreator

Setting Healthy Boundaries in Friendships & Other Relationships

This topic can be yet another awkward moment in a friendship. One can find themselves having self-doubt with even broaching the subject in fear of seeming overly sensitive and not wanting to seem needy. Boundaries, however, are something that everyone needs and should be able to discuss with a true friend.
 
Please check out the following link to the upcoming documentary screening, "The Creative Healing Series: Volume 1: Best Friends Not Forever" that is premiering on 08/19/2023.
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/creative-healing-series-best-friends-not-forever-screening-discussion-registration-680962837177?aff=oddtdtcreator

Do Friendship Breakups Have To Be Permanent?

It looks like Jordyn Woods & Kylie Jenner have made up. At minimum, seeing this makes someone introspectively consider if they could ever do that. Furthermore, the public can also speculate if they think Jordyn should be giving Kylie another chance. Because best believe it is Jordyn who should be calling the shots concerning boundaries this time around.  Can friends find their way back to each other after a friendship break up?

Keke Palmer & Light Skin Keisha: Let’s Talk About It!

The innanets have been active this summer with the troubling opinions of some of our high-profile talented sisters' boyfriends these past few weeks, and we are not going to let this pass without correcting a few points that have been put out there! We understand that these are people's actual relationships that they hold near and dear so we hope they can find a healthy pathway forward. We would be remiss, however, to not challenge a few points that we feel are highlighted too much in our culture that are unhealthy and detrimental. Dive in with us this episode as Dai & Li aim to keep healthy conflict resolution dialogue alive and well!